Women
THE BIGGEST mistake any woman can make is taking their personal safety
for granted. But everyone does it.
You are slightly sozzled from a night drinking with friends and you bravely
shrug off their offers to walk you home. Without a thought in your head
you find yourself saying ”it’s not far, I’ll be fine.
I’ll text you when I’m in”
And despite not being able to guarantee the last two, off you trundle.
Wing Chun was developed by a female monk in China about 3-400 years ago.
Being developed by a woman and not focussing on strength, makes Wing Chun
an ideal system for women to practice and master. The style can be adapted
to a person, of any size as it does not utilise force against force.
Most women wish to be empowered with the ability to take care of and
look after themselves. Most women will claim that they can “take
care of themselves”, however, the hospitals, refuge centres and
cemeteries are full of the people who have claimed the same phrase! Now,
this might sound close to the bone, but facts are facts.
Probably the single biggest threat to a woman is a man! Statistics gathered
state that 1 in 4 women will suffer sexual or domestic violence at some
point in their life (whether regularly or a one off). However, it is widely
believed that the figure is closer to 3 out of 4, as most cases are not
reported. That, is a scary statistic! Part of the reason why most wish
to study Wing Chun is to gain confidence and self defence skills. The
idea of an all female training environment will naturally appeal to those
who are more comfortable in that situation. However, from a self-defence
viewpoint, this is questionable. Practise and envisaging a situation mentally
help you react if the reality happens. Whilst you can never fully prepare
for an attack mentally or emotionally, you can train your response mechanism
to react without thinking. Your mind will relate to your training situation
and draw comparisons. Without training with a man, the differences in
strength, weight, height and feel cannot be appreciated and the woman
will not be used to responding to him, which is important in reality.
Whilst all female classes will have their place, it is worth considering
that training with men allows women to gain confidence in their technique
and affords greater understanding in a self-defence scenario.
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